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Hire
a Wedding Day Coordinator. No one can successfully be a Bride and
Coordinator on the wedding day. It’s ok to plan your wedding yourself,
but hand over all the details to an experienced Coordinator, so you can
relax and enjoy your wedding day.
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Get Organized. Gather items, such as, pictures, swatches,
checklists, budget and attendant information, into one place, like a binder.
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Stick to your budget. When establishing your budget, plan
a little lower than what you can afford so you can have some breathing room
for unexpected costs. Remember: a budget is no good if you abandon it when
it becomes inconvenient or uncomfortable.
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Give yourself time to plan. Make the most of one of your
best resources – time. Ideally, allow for at least 9 months to a year
to reduce stressful time constraints in planning. Also, having more time
to plan will go easier on your budget.
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Remember the
purpose of your wedding day. Celebrate the love between you and
your fiancée and the bond you share with family and friends. Don’t
stress if something does not go as planned (and it will). Your wedding will
be wonderful as long as you keep the true purpose at heart. Remember: a
wedding day is not just about food, favors and flowers, but your love and
commitment to each other.
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Limit Advice. If you tend to be indecisive with decision-making,
call on one or two trusted individuals for advice during planning. Choose
individuals who can be objective enough to advise you on what you desire
for your wedding and not their own desires.
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Stay Balanced. Though it’s not suggested you start
a business or build a home while planning your wedding, try to stay balanced
with the normal activities of life: family, friends, church, work, physical
exercise, social activities; as much as possible.
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Cherish ALL relationships. Treasure both old and new relationships
that you will want to be there after the wedding day. Don’t become
a Bridezilla, which is a Bride who is exceptionally selfish, greedy and
obnoxious. Be open and honest about your desires but in a respectful way.
Remember: it does not matter how aesthetically beautiful a wedding is, if
relationships are strained.
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If all else fails, keep it simple.
Be realistic, not idealistic. Simple is not necessarily cheap. Simple can
be enjoyable, tasteful, but most importantly, hassle-free.
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Delegate.
Oftentimes, couples (especially Brides) become overwhelmed by trying to
do everything themselves in order to maintain control. Delegate duties to
your wedding party, family, friends, and yes, even the Groom! Realize that
you cannot do or control everything. When you try to do it all, you end
up stressed, fatigued and disconnected from others.